Comments for Bal Simon's "Heart-Fires"

Comment on A unique marriage of convenience by Martha Thomson

Martha Thomson — Mon, 26 Jul 2010 03:59:32 +0000

marriage is great specially if you have found a very special someone that is beautiful both on the inside and outside.:–

Comment on R-R-R-R-Rumba! Quick Quick Slow by Corey Chapman

Corey Chapman — Thu, 17 Jun 2010 00:51:21 +0000

In ballroom dancing, my favorite dance is Rumba and the Flamenco.”:`

Comment on R-R-R-R-Rumba! Quick Quick Slow by Skye Hussain

Skye Hussain — Mon, 24 May 2010 17:24:42 +0000

I just love to do ballroom dancing specially during my free times. dancing is my passion..;:

Comment on A unique marriage of convenience by Tyler Clarke

Tyler Clarke — Mon, 24 May 2010 08:13:02 +0000

Marriage is one of the most sacred ceremonies that we humans experience. Being married also gives us happines.~”:

Comment on Opening to new interests by admin

admin — Wed, 28 May 2008 13:53:17 +0000

Hi Sudarmaji,

The short answer is “yes,” there are ideas in my ebook that can help you sort this kind of thing out. In fact most of my book deals with “domestic” rather than just “romantic.” And yet the domestic has such a profound effect on the romantic, doesn’t it?

What you’ve run into with the purchase of your house is an “important thing.” Chapter 10 of my book deals with just this: handling important things. Also I believe my chapters on “safety valves” will be very useful to you.

But let me do more than plug my book and give you some things to think about.

First – I’d suggest that unless your wife is a dummy that there is no real “head of the family” other than the two of you as a couple. Now I realize that there may be a cultural component and that perhaps you’re of a traditional culture where the man is considered the “head, i.e., the boss.” But let me ask you: does it do any good to move on your own and have your wife resent you for excluding her view of things?

Second – kids shouldn’t really be centrally involved in your planning sessions. Listen to your kids’ opinions, certainly, but I think then it’s you and your wife.

Third – you state that “you don’t know to do next.” Then why is it just up to you?

I suggest that you work it through together, be gentle with each other in all things as you go together and deal strongly with the world and understand that you and your wife are in this together.

There’s much in my book that I think can help you.

Thanks for your question. I wish you and your family good tidings.

- Bal

Comment on Opening to new interests by Sudarmaji Lamiran

Sudarmaji Lamiran — Wed, 28 May 2008 09:38:29 +0000

Just bought an (almost-ruined) house last week. Yesterday we discussed how to build a new one with the entire family members. As the head of family, I presented my plan first. Others listening. And there come discussion session.
That’s the hard part to face with.

Nobody agreed with my plan. My wife said it’s better to hire an architect or home interior to save time and budget, my little daughter (third grade, 9 years old) protested why united two houses (the new one is just built at next space) and my oldest son (19 years) said nothing.
It sounds good to do things together with the spouse indeed, but where you don’t know to do next. what will you do?
I think this is not an romantic episode anymore, more domestic one?
Does your ebook has to do with this issue?
Thank for reading my post.